I would like to tell you about a small pet peeve that I have always had. It concerns being outside in the summer, or any other time of the year for that matter. When I am outside my skin gets exposed to all sorts of rays and dust and what-not. The most dangerous are obviously the UV rays from the sun. I apply sun screen whenever I am outside for a long period of time. For some reason, there are people who cannot understand it. Here’s why.
In June of 1995, my Uncle Dwight succumbed to melanoma skin cancer. He was 46. He left behind his younger brother (my father), two elderly parents, a niece and a nephew, countless friends, a business, and a nine-year-old son. I will tell you right now: if Dwight had the luxury of sun screen when he was younger, he might have read this article, which would have had a considerably different tone.
Why is it unmanly to put on sun screen? Please, someone tell me. Sunburns are painful, in case you leathery-looking people have not noticed. How does it feel when that hot shower water hits you? Real good, right? WRONG. The peeling skin? It could have been prevented if you had used sun screen in generous amounts. Slather that stuff on. It may feel bad, but you won’t be in pain.
I am saddened when I am chastised by peers for my application of sun screen. Am I somehow lessening my manhood by wanting to be a pasty-white wimp? If so, then I am moving to Canada.
I tell you this: I am putting that stuff on no matter what anyone else thinks. It may make me feel like a walking slice of pizza but I have a lot less of a chance of getting cancer that way. No one gives me crap for wearing sunglasses. Why should sun screen be any different? It’s that good ol’ American double standard. God’s Country indeed.
One must have his/her health as a primary concern. Safety is so important. We aren’t invincible. Some even say that there is no set time when we are going to die, we choose our fates. The choices we make determine where we will be further on down the road. My decision to wear sun screen may seem trivial, but not wearing it decades ago tore my family apart.